There are a group of people around us which we tend to be attracted, because of their overloaded self confidence. Narcissistic. We love and fall in love with them easily. But why better to stay away from those you notice to be a narcissistic personality?
First of all, narcissistic are always right. Always. No matter what are your arguments and evidence of truth to be on your side. You will always be wrong and if you will fight for your truth, you two would just get into huge fight and in the end you would be the one apologizing for being wrong when you are not. Narcissistic might threaten to leave you if you will not agree with him/her. Since you are under a spell of narcissist it's easy for them to manipulate you to agree with them.
Secondly it will always be about narcissist and what he/she wants. Your needs will come second or not come at all. It's not what you want to see, do, where to go and what to eat. Don't even try to argue. In the end you would be just apologizing again. Couse narcissists knows better.
Third it's always about them. They need to be in the center of attention non stop. You need to compliment them even you know they are not worth it. On every single thing. Otherwise you are not appropriating them well enough. And never expect compliments coming your way. They just don´t understand that they should also compliment you. It's not in their nature.
Last of all, if your eyes one day will open and you will understand that you don't want to be with someone who's world is just about them and what they want to do, you are in big trouble. If you will leave narcissist, he/she will try to manipulate you to get back together couse you will never find anyone better. And couse already you are not worthy of them. Or you will not survive without them.
Because you hurt the pride of the narcissist. That's a big deal. If you try to block them from your life, they might start stalking you in social media, via email, disturbing phone calls from unknown numbers and other weird stuff. Couse they can't handle being left. Why? Couse in their eyes they are the best of all and they need to revenge someone who thought less of them and dared to leave.
Of course loving yourself is good quality, everyone must be happy with themselves, but if someone wants that all world would run around them, that's too much to handle for non-narcissistic personality.
Solution?
You spot a narcissist, turn around and walk another way.
Or run towards him. You choose after all. ;)