When relationship is not gonna work?
- Simona Martinaityte
- Dec 11, 2017
- 2 min read
There are many ways to know when your relationship has 0 future, but some of us not always wants to see it because we are looking though pink love glasses. Does not matter you are woman or a man, those rules apply to all as I gathered some information from many peoples lives.
Never has time.
When someone never has time for you anymore, when first was all over you, means he or she just lost interest. And you keep trying to write, call, meet spent time together but there is no effort from another side, time after time, common its time to wake up. Someone lost interest. Believe me if someone is interested, especially when relationship is just started, you will be getting many messages and calls. If someone is really seriously interesetd in you and not just playing you, they will make time.
Does not show any feelings.
When you are dating someone for a while and start develop feelings, of course you want to show it. When you are in love or really into somebody, something inside you just screams to show it. Of course you want same back. But if another person shows 0 feelings, not just the ´L´ word is the problem, but any other normal emotions or just saying ´I care for you´ is impossible to say, oh well another case of he or she is playing with you and not serious. Ba-Bye.
Controlling.
When you feel like your second half is always pushing you to do something you don’t want and says that you need ´couse it will make him or her ´happy´ that´s pure control. Wants you to change your job or even as little thing as hair style, that´s not gonna work. Your life is your life and you are boss of it, not someone else.
You are not good enough.
Time to time there are toxic relationships when you start feeling like you are not good enough. You are too stupid or too fat, dress wrong, and blah blah blah another bullshit. Someone wants to change everything in you. NOPE. No matter who you are, you are good the way you are, love yourself and don´t let someone change you into someone you are not. Close the door and walk away.
Trust.
I think there is nothing else to say, if you don’t trust someone and thing they are doing some funny business with someone else, why waste your time?
You keep apologising.
If you feel like you are constantly the one in relationships apologising for everything even when you know you are right, but if you will say so huge fight will start. Really. Then someone is big narcissist who can´t admit to make a mistake, you can´t be with such person because your life will be a misery.
This is short summary. Most of you already know it, but if you see someone in miserable relationship, should say so, we live once and shouldn´t waste time on people who are not right for us. Be happy and Carpe Diem.

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